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McNiff's Riff: The story of a legendary hockey sisterhood

Tim McNiff stumbles on this story of a legendary hockey sisterhood.
Natalie Darwitz #22 and Krissy Wendell #7 pose during a photo session with members of the Women's USA Hockey team during the USA Hockey National Women's Festival on August 26, 2005 (Photo credit: Jamie Squire/Getty Images)

The story you’re about to read isn’t the one I set out to write.

This was supposed to be a story about Natalie Darwitz, child hockey prodigy, high school superstar, college All-American, back-to-back national champion, team USA player and captain, winner of multiple Olympic and World Championship medals, follows in her father’s footsteps in becoming a hockey coach.

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Then, with her dad as her assistant, the married mother of two, leads perennial doormat Hamline University to the MIAC Tournament title, a third place finish at the national tournament, and is named the Division III Women’s Coach of the Year, in just her third year on the job.

You gotta admit, that’s a great freaking story, right?

I thought so. But, when I was interviewing Natalie for that story, I casually mentioned that I had seen her former U of M and Team USA teammate Krissy Wendell-Pohl on TV during the state tournament, mentioning that years ago someone associated with the U told me that when they played on the Gophers, the team locker room was split, with Natalie on one side and Krissy, a player with elite talent on par with Darwitz, on the other.

Let’s just say that I didn’t touch a nerve, I ruptured an aorta.

“Somebody said that?” Darwitz asked. “That’s the kind of stuff people always wanted to believe, but nothing could have been further from the truth.”

I attempted to go back to the subject at hand, but Natalie wasn’t having it.

“I started playing with her when I was 15 and all the way to when it ended, and I couldn’t have imagined it without Krissy. If people thought we didn’t get along, they couldn’t have been more wrong.”

“We were so young,” Wendell-Pohl. says “We were the new faces after the ’98 Olympics. We made Team USA for the 4 Nations International Tournament in Finland (1999, Darwitz was 15, Wendell 17) and we met at the airport. The Darwitz family traveled more than my family was able to, and they just took me under their wing. And you know how it is when you just connect with somebody? That’s how it was with Natalie”

Natalie Darwitz (L), Kelly Stephens (C) and Krissy Wendell celebrate their second goal during the ice hockey women's semi-final USA-Sweden at the 2006 Winter Olympics, 17 February 2006. (Photo credit: DON EMMERT/AFP/Getty Images)

Already periodic teammates for Team USA, the two finally played together on a full-time basis at the University of Minnesota where both achieved All-American status and where in 2005, Wendell edged Darwitz to become the first player from Minnesota and the first from the WCHA to win the Patty Kazmaier Award which is given out each year to the nation’s outstanding women’s college hockey player.

“It didn’t bother me, I was happy for her,” Darwitz says. “I think we both know that we were able to accomplish the things we did because we had each other. But, I think the thing that I’m so proud of is that we won back-to-back National Championships and we couldn’t have done that without each other.”

“We were roommates on the road by choice,” Wendell-Pohl says. "And while we always got along, in many ways we couldn’t have been more different. On game days Natalie had her routine and that included taking a pre-game nap. I wasn’t much of a napper. My thing was shopping. I wouldn’t really buy anything, but I couldn’t just sit in the room, so I just walked around and window shopped mostly.”

This is where one could insert a sexist joke about women and shopping because it turns out that it was actually a shopping trip that led arguably the two greatest female hockey players this state has ever produced to reunite on the ice this winter. Only this time the shopper was Darwitz.

“I was shopping at Lululemon when somebody recognized me and asked me if they could take a picture with me,” Natalie recalls. “The store manager heard and told me that Lululemon wanted to sponsor a team in the U.S Pond Hockey Championships and that they would provide uniforms and whatever else we needed. They just wanted to have a team and asked if I would be interested in putting one together, and I told her I would try.”

“The first person I called was Krissy, and she said, 'Yeah, let’s do this,'” Natalie says.

Wendell-Pohl says it wasn’t quite that simple.

“Probably the only person who could convince me to play is Natalie. I said, I’ll play if you’ll play, because that’s what we always do every time the U asks us to take part in some event.”

Darwitz assembled a team of seven skaters, including another former Gopher, and another name you have to throw in the “best ever” conversation when it comes to women’s hockey in Minnesota, Roseville’s Winny Brodt.

Photo credit:  U.S. Pond Hockey 

“Winny has done as much as anybody in this state to grow the game,” says Wendell-Pohl. “Without Winny Brodt there wouldn’t be nearly as many opportunities for girls in hockey, put that in there.”

Also receiving the call were former Gopher teammates Erica McKenzie and Becky Kortum, and former Badger Angie Keseley from St. Louis Park.

Keep in mind that all this is happening just weeks before the event. Both Darwitz and Wendell are now married and mothers and neither has played competitively in about a decade. So Darwitz put her coaching skills to work.

“I recruited two kids, Sadie Lundquist from Bemidji State, and Kate Mason from UW-River falls for speed,” Natalie says. “Because I knew we were going to need some wheels.” Adds Wendell, “We knew we weren’t going to have the legs.”

Not that they were going to need them. After all, team Lululemon playing in the women’s division was just in it for a good time, right? Well, at least that’s how it started.

“Let’s face it, we’re jerks if we go out there and we try really hard, and we’re jerks if we don’t,” Darwitz says.

Both women agree what started out as an opportunity to get together with friends and have a good time, somehow changed along the way.

Where they differ is exactly how that happened.

“We ran into two college teams that were treating it like the Stanley Cup,” Darwitz says. “I think they had video and had scouted us while we were just trying to have a good time. Then, they got a little chippy and that’s when Krissy said, ‘OK, if you want to do this, let’s do this!’ She just can’t turn off the competitive juices.”

Let’s just say that Wendell remembers it a little bit differently.

“It wasn’t me! Competitive Natalie came out and she put a girl over the boards. They definitely made the wrong person mad. I love when I see it but I would never tell anybody to poke the bear.”

However it happened, when two of the best hockey players this state has ever produced are properly motivated, age becomes a non-issue and the outcome was never in doubt leaving team Lululemon to skate off with the coveted gold shovel.

“When you get to be our age they say the first thing to go are the hands,” Natalie says. “But we would just watch Krissy and say, ‘How are you still doing that?’”

Wendell’s response, “That’s because I can’t skate like her! Seriously, even now if you gave her six months Natalie would make the next Olympic team.”

Both women agree their Olympic days are safely behind them.

Wendell coached girls high school hockey for years with her husband, former Gopher and NHL player Johnny Pohl. But these days Krissy is content to watch her three girls play the game.

Darwitz is happy at Hamline, because athletic director Jason Verdugo was smart enough to make her position family friendly making it clear that he’s more interested in results than in how much time the mother of two young boys spends at the rink.

“It’s ideal for me and I enjoy that he gives me the freedom to build this program in my own way,” says Darwitz. “It’s been a great gig for me and my family.”

“I could have predicted this," Wendell-Pohl says. "She’s so driven but she really cares about people. And I’m happy because she’s happy. That’s all you want. And I can just tell that she’s really happy.”

So,what about next year? Will these lifelong friends and hockey icons once again lead team Lululemon onto the ice this time in defense of their golden shovel? That depends on who you ask.

“I think so,” Darwitz says. “It was just so much fun to be out there. I’d really like to do it again.”

“No,” Krissy says. “Natalie still has it. I couldn’t walk for a week. Yeah, no.”

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